My Friend and You Know Who

So there is this guy I know, we'll call him "My Friend" and he likes this girl, we'll call her "You Know Who." Anyways, My Friend likes You Know Who a lot, but he is tragically shy and pessimistic when it comes to his chances with her. It's even gotten to the point where he rejected her asking him to dance. So sad, and thats without even knowing the details to the incident. The details are as follows: he was wanting to dance when he arrived at the place of dancing, he likes her, she asked him why he wasn't dancing and even said that he should (possibly with her and her friends, the details on that are still somewhat unclear), and he DIDN'T!!! The answer to the question of why he didn't may be as elusive as the answer to "how many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie Pop?" Pray for him, that one day My Friend may be brave enough to actually talk to You Know Who.